Let’s face it, confidence is the most attractive quality in a man.
But having a larger body is not a deal-breaker — though it may seem so.
The internet is full of stories about women being horrifically fat-shamed or harassed on dating sites, and yes, those stories need to be told. And at a certain point, I think they can become inadvertent scare tactics, frightening plus-sized women out of the dating pool.
You know the guy you’re with doesn’t treat you right but you think, hey, it could be worse — and at least you have someone.
You’re content that you have a relationship even if it’s not with the right guy. You don’t know your own worth so you’re unlikely to convince anyone else of it either, which is a shame.
There’s no algorithm for being a successful dater but there is one thing you have to have before a successful relationship: self-confidence.