"I think I was kind of clueless and oblivious," admits Melcher, who spent his early 20s lingering in the friend zone."Women wanted the bad boys." Everyone probably knows a Mr. He's the guy who patiently listens to a girl complain without interrupting her.
Because of his sweet nature, he puts the girl's demands first, altering his weekend plans to fit her schedule.
He may be uneasy about making a decision for fear of being domineering.
Then there are all those self-proclaimed “nice guys” who whine about always finishing last.
We definitely shouldn’t be punishing genuine nice guys for their niceness, but the reality is there’s such a thing as being nice is nice at the expense of his pride.
I was raised by two very loving parents to be nice. Yes, even sex can get boring if it's always the same. how long would it take you to get bored and want something else? It might taste good at first, but soon she wonders "is this all? If you don't lead, she can't dance because she doesn't know where to go or what to do.