” The most serious red flags in my book can be summed up with 3 C’s.
I would rather marry an unattractive, boring man with great character than the most charming guy who lacks it.
So instead of looking to check the boxes — “does he go to church? ” look for those around your potential partner who can speak of their reputation.
Over time you also want to observe an expressed seriousness in their hearts to grow and deepen their understanding of and relationship with God.
A healthy marriage is impossible without traits like integrity, kindness, and unselfishness.