No one’s saying you can’t enjoy these things, but everyone does. We would love to read an online dating profile that states “Hi, I’m Janet and I love to cry.Find a way to package and explain that in a creative, engaging way. Before we depart on this illegal odyssey perhaps we should figure out what kind of crime we will be getting our kicks to. Or perhaps breaking and entering is your date of choice. If you love to cry as well, please reach out so we can cry together.’’ Saying you love to laugh is like saying you love oxygen. We should stop announcing it as if it makes us unique and be a bit more imaginative. Same problem as 'partner in crime.' You’re clearly not working hard at coming up with your own words to describe yourself.
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This puts them on the defensive, so they’ll act aloof right back at you.
Or, they get frustrated and move onto another guy who’s more available.
‘People have to imagine how they’ll fit into your life, so describing yourself as a “bookworm and internet addict” makes them feel they’d never see you,’ explains match.com’s relationship expert Kate Taylor.
‘Play up your love of anything sporty, outdoorsy or public – like concerts and exhibitions.’ Wouldn’t you know, profile photos that demonstrate you playing your guitar or downhill skiing – even if your face isn’t showing – get more messages.
My job as a coach is to call these limits out and break your reality – thus showing you what you’re really capable of. They try to act like a cool guy with a cool, busy lifestyle. And they’re not usually going to take initiative, especially when you’re not showing any obvious interest.